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Pam Costa

Founder, Down to There

After a decade and a half at Apple and Facebook, I left my career in high tech to found Down to There. Married for nearly 20 years, I had always struggled with sex and intimacy in my relationship. After undergoing a transformational experience through coaching and therapy, I decided to share my story in order to inspire others to seek out improved intimacy and connection in their own relationships.

Through my writing, coaching and workshops, I hope to cultivate a safe space where cultural beliefs, social norms and our own habits around sex and relationships can be challenged. And through this exploration and beginner’s curiosity, I hope to encourage individuals and couples of all configurations to openly, honestly and wholeheartedly live the erotic and intimate lives they want to live.


I am a Somatica® sex and relationship coach and Conscious Sexual Self group guide. My ongoing studies include training with San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI), American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) and JFK University's holistic counseling program.

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